Good thought, tpen! Thanks for that.
I might have jumped on that idea last night if I'd had it...I think ultimately I would have come to the place of deleting everything anyway to release it on my end, but saving it to a flash drive would have been a great middle step. I'll consider it for the e-mails relationship that ended a year ago, that might be helpful.
There is relief in letting go of the files on my end. Of course I know my exA still has all of that (told me months ago that it's all kept in a temporary folder) but I keep saying to myself that that isn't "my side of the street".
I think I'm going to delete FB account today, too. I hope I don't regret any of this later!!
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