Posie - I needed to read this tonight. I actually read it as I was laying in bed, and you reminded me that I still have pictures of my XA and I on my computer.
I don't know why I kept them, so I just got up and deleted them all. I'm on FB, my XA has me blocked (of course!) but we have mutual friends. I actually stay away from everyone's page right now because I want no glimpse that he was maybe there. I know one day, it won't matter, but right now it does.
I would write more, but I want to go and crawl back into bed.
Thank you for the inspiration. Some things deserve to evaporate into tiny cyberspace molecules.