Originally Posted by
Catkill23 
I'm the "A" in the family. It sounds like the non alchohollic partner in the "relationship" plays a game to make the recovery or "A" go through some kind of pain? I'm sober 8 months and it seems that is what my wife is doing. I have tried to acknowledge her precense to get no reaction. So I guess this is the "game",
Question, one of the posts here say the "A" finally gave in, what does giving in mean? Can you give me a hint on the game, because I only play sports games, not mind games.
I was going to respond to this and had a whole post but really what you perceive is your own. I think I wont engage but sorry this is how you took it. I hope your wife turns around for you. I am only trying to protect myself if you want to know why I did some of the things I did.
Hugs
Lulu