Yes. Definately yes. It didn't do either of us any good - as a matter of fact it did a bucket of harm to both of us.
It was so co-dependent and led to so many negative feelings for me and negative interactions in our relationship.
I guess I can't speak for him but how terrible it must feel to be a grown adult and think one must depend on someone else for every small thing - so powerless. I can't even imagine. I feel a little sick thinking I enabled that.
That entire interaction is one of the deadliest parts of the co-dependent dance I think.