haha, keep pedaling. that's a good strategy!
starcrossed, i am afraid that they lying goes along with the drinking. i do understand the need to get the facts so as to be able to make a decision. i kept a journal for about 6 months, monitoring drinks and money spent to figure out the extent of mine.
so, now you know he's drinking and lying about it.
please don't drive yourself crazy continuing to be "the booze police".
hands off his drinking! you either accept that he is a lying drinker or you give him the boot.
naive