Originally Posted by
Iwanttoheal 
If anyone has any words of wisdom or has found themselves in the same position, I would love to hear from you. Thanks for listening to me ramble on, IWTHxxx
You were doing great -- and you can again. Just because you had what the AA's call a "slip" and caved in for awhile... doesn't mean you can't reassert the boundaries -- as you've already done again -- and do another no-contact if necessary.
You have no "duty" -- that's the line of bull my Dad tries to pull on me, same as you're getting. Just because he got my Mom knocked up, doesn't mean I'm his servant forever. Being our parent doesn't mean they own us.
Keep in mind, all it takes is one click to do this:
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