Letting go doesn't mean we stop loving them, it means we love them enough to let them find their own way and maybe save their own lives.
thank you Ann. Well said. Loved the whole post. that's EXACTLY it. Loving them to death is what shocked/scared me into making the choices I did even tho I wasn't equipped emotionally or mentally do do it without great pain - I just knew it was what HAD to be done.
You said it WAY better.