My X used to bring me stuff he got out of a free box (don't know if free boxes are a Portland thing, but basically people put boxes of stuff outside their house and give away stuff)...and...you guessed it. I thought he was sooooo sweeeeet!
Crumbs, I tell you! When someone asks what you're getting out of a relationship, and all you can describe are givens ("He doesn't beat me.") and crumbs ("He brought me a sandwich after being a total a-hole all week."), you need help!