Originally Posted by
Insulated 
can you run interception? Like loss control ? what would be the worst to happen if you made it clear to him that showing up on your doorstep is not an option.
EXCELLENT suggestion. There's something about human nature that makes letting someone know AHEAD of time easier on both people involved.
Consider this real time. Would it be easier to contact him now and say what Insulated suggested; "showing up on my doorstep is not an option"?
Or turning him away if he actually shows up.
Great suggestion, Insulated!