ugh this is so hard sahmto4! *hugs* to you for keeping your cool and just taking things one day at a time.
I agree with Thumper...don't let the words he speaks get to you. He may well believe what he's saying at the moment he's saying them, but actions speak louder than words. 6 days without booze doesn't really mean that much, considering everything he's done for years and years.
Keep seeing the counsellor. Keep posting and reading and posting some more. Have you tried those online Al-Anon meetings?
You're doing really great!