Kitty -
i can tell you
from my own personal experience
when you call the police
they're going to tell you to start keeping a LOG book of every single incident
every call
every conversation
every 'accidental'sighting'
everything ....
if you're coming in one night
and the neighbor says she saw your ex in the front yard...
write that down...
when she told you when she saw him etc.
because they're going to NEED that information to determine
whether you're in an actual 'situation'
or if
you're just not used to being on your own
and over reacting.
So start today -
go back over the past week
go through your recieved calls. etc....\
what you can remember is best
and get that written down.
I'm absolutely positive you'll be told the same thing
when you talk to the police
so it's best to have a head start onnit.