Good advice. About getting an attorney, I did speak with one 2 years ago. She said that I'm liable property-wise and if he hurts someone if I have made no attempt to separate from him. If I started the divorce or legal separation, there could be some leniency for me.
I feel bad about saying "useless" but I was referring his uselessness when he is drunk. Otherwise, he is a great guy. Problem is, he's drunk or sleeping 90% of the time (no exaggeration). I just picked him up at home because he couldn't start his car and I needed a body in the office while I did some work outside the office. Of course, he lied and said his car battery was dead, until I blew and started his car. Just realize, in one month, this drunk guy is out on the road in the middle of the day, endangering everyone else on the road. There are more like him.