when i saw my therapist two weeks ago, one of the things that he said was that i
"have a tremendous need to be needed".
i have been sitting on my hands so that i don't grab the phone to say "i'm going to be in your neighborhood; do you need anything?" or "how are you doing today?"
this is huge. not just missing someone you love, but actually a lifestyle change.
you ARE doing the right thing. no doubt about it.