I was a pothead- married a pothead. I got clean, and he didn't....Pot to me is changing seats on the Titanic. It is not healthy- 50 kinds of tar in it.....it's illegal.....I wish booze and cigarettes were too......My body is my temple.....glad finally feel that way and know I cannot live with anyone who is not healthy. My X did rehab but didn't get clean. I had to let go or be dragged. I still go to AA and Alanon and NA.