coffeedrinker~
you live in minneapolis? we should pm sometime. I could use a friend that understands this whole mess.
Yeah, it was the pot but here's the thing. Since he moved out of his parents house two months ago, I found out he was growing in his aunts house!
Thats when I left him. That's why he was so distant those two months. I had just recently mentioned cutting down to him because those two months he seemed so different and it was really affecting our relationship.....he wasn't calling as much and just seemed super paranoid, not wanting to ever leave the house. He even commented it was "too cold" one time to go out to eat.....and he's a snowmobiler! Thats when i knew something was up.
Anyway, I lost track of my thoughts but yeah we were only together for a year and a half. He has been addicted for 10 yrs (before me, starting at age 16). So if it takes half the time to get over him, I should be good by the fall lol.