You will identify in.....don't worry. You will share when you are ready. I was so messed up when I went in I flooded the room with tears for a couple of meetings. It is good for them to hear newcomers.....to remember where they came from. They are there because of a common bond and they are there to help you get out of the ick......The 12th step is to carry the message to you. They will not judge you. They will pass the tissues......and share their experiences, strengths, and hopes. All of them had their first meeting at some time. It is a miracle. You are drowning and are about to be thrown the lifeline. Lois Wilson story Sunday CBS.....she started the lifeline!