Originally Posted by
1logically 
SAID IN A SMALL VOICE " I DON'T WANT TO COME HOME".
Well, don't come home then.
Have you considered changing the locks?
Ok ok, it's mean of me, but he sounds like such a king baby. Ugh. I feel your pain. I was also told that I was the reason AH went out. IMO, he didn't come home because I had become the embodiement of his conscience, looking him straight in the eyes and telling him, whether wordlessly or not, that he was disgusting.