Welcome to the Sober Recovery Family!
We're glad you found us! You will find lots of support and information for yourself here. I recommend reading in the permanent (sticky) posts at the top of the forum. Lots of wisdom in those threads. I also recommend Alanon meetings for face to face support for yourself.
I learned about the 3 C's of addictions in Alanon:
I did not cause it
I can not control it
I will not cure it
(((hugs)))to you as you have your followup appts this week with another doctor. This is an important time for you to focus on your needs and your recovery.
It appears your AH is doing what he needs to do to take care of himself. He has the tools and resources to follow through with his own recovery.
Together, yet seperately, you are traveling the roads to recovery. May your path lead you to peace and serenity.
Serenity Prayer:
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change,
Courage to change the things I can,
and Wisdom to know the difference.