Originally Posted by
1234 
I'm trying to decide if I should talk to my brother in law about whether this is a good idea. None of my business? I'm unsure, as we might be talking about basic physical safety, right? Then again, it doesn't happen too often.
Should I stop worrying?
Where a child's safety and well-being is concerned (especially a family member), I'd say that it is your business. HOWEVER, being as you clearly can't change your brother in law's mind for him, I'd speak my peace--once, and then step back. It's HARD. Really hard, especially when there's a child involved. And yet, you don't control the outcome of this situation.
Also, if you start to notice neglect of the child due to the caregiver's drinking, then it stands to reason that you could call Child Services. It won't make you popular, but who cares?