The book Dee mentions can be ordered on Half.com very inexpensively.
And that PAWS link did wonders for me to be able to understand what is going on with my body/mind. I am 11 weeks sober, and I sometimes think that I should be feeling like wonderwoman now. Don't misunderstand, I feel so much better not waking up with a hangover, and gaining clarity of mind...but there are times when I think I should be feeling better or different than I am currently...and then I reread the PAWS link...and it helps me to give myself time. It helps me to be more patient with myself in my recovery.
I wish you the best in your recovery.