Originally Posted by
tpen I'm just so upset and sad that my actions to break it off made all this happen when I know I had every right too.
i'm a little confused about this statement.
made all of what happen?
i hope you aren't taking responsibility for what she is doing today.
and about "the right to". of course you did, but not only that, you
needed to. remember how sick you felt when you were
in the relationship?
that was worse than this is.
and, i just read something about 4 years. oh my goodness, i didn't know you were with her for that long. that is a toughie to break. in a weird way, 4 years might be harder than 14. or 24. what i mean is, by the time we hit those higher numbers, i think we are often so darned sick of our spouse/partner, that it's sheer relief. 4 years you were probably still living in the fantasy of what was to come when you guys really got everything straightened out.
at least it has been my experience.