I know I shouldnt get involved, it just breaks my heart to see her living such a sheltered life. He beat her up about ten years ago blackened her eyes. His excuse she must have said something to irk him, the next excuse was he was drinking Rye. She says there is no physicall abuse any more. Two years ago he slept with a 22 year old he was drunk. He is 53 he claims he was at a bar and someone must have drugged him. She is a nervous wreck. She says there is no physical abuse, but when he drinks everyone has be careful not to upset the big mouth or he will get angry. I am having a BBQ in two weeks and want her to come, not him. He will ruin it the center of attention with his rude obnoxious jokes. He once peed on my driveway. Well Im rattling I hope she gets involved with Naranon and finds some suuport.