Originally Posted by
iwantcontrol 
and no, i don't want him as he is today. is it unfair to stay with him because i can't accept who is is being at the moment?
yes. unfair to YOU.
Who he is 'at the moment' IS who he is.
You are telling us you don't like it.
Go up and read your post.
You say you don't know how you really feel, but you are saying how you feel - unhappy, frustrated and disrespected.
HONOR yourself by LISTENING to yourself and TRUSTING yourself and CARING for yourself.
That's the part that seems to be missing.
