what am i supposed to do....i am at a distance....we never talk, but when my mother calls...i rush in to "fix" and i know that is wrong...but i was able to get the doctors to talk to my mother...my mother is now seeing a counselor who says that my sister has a disease, this is just another excuse that my mothers offers to my sister. I am now that the point where i have asked my mother not to share anything about my sister with me. Like she isn't even there anymore. I know that this sounds so horrible and mean, but I have to take care of me and my children.