He is still active. Came to a big realization a few weeks ago and did not drink, went to a few meetings then gave up. I know I cant fix that. It's just the fear I guess that we wont work things out. Of course I know I cant force it, and if I really used my head and not my heart I would say I'm better off. But I cant help wanting to stay married.
Everyone says time will tell. How much time before you realize you have to give up?