hi shan welcome to SR!
I hope you'll read the stickies at the top of the forum...
and if you're looking for a better understanding
of the disease of alcoholism
please feel free to read the stickies
at the top of the Alcoholism forum.
There's also information there
about resources for your own well being
during this time
so you can keep yourself
and your family going.
Welcome aboard!!!
Read and read and read and read!!!!!!