Originally Posted by
MaryGoRound 
This was the response I was expecting.
I was waiting for him to come to this realization
I don't feel "relieved" like some people who post here do after cutting ties.
Maybe it's because you haven't actually cut ties... No contact is more than just not talking to them.... you are still concentrating on him... what he's doing... how he's doing.... where he's doing.... when he's doing...etc.
I promise you the relief comes when you begin to concentrate on you.... what you're doing.... how you're doing.... where you're doing.... when you're doing....... etc.
That's what it took for me to feel "relieved".
Take care.