kerbcrawler,
we should get transformyself over here.
she said something great about the cheating.
just paraphrasing
the cheating is only part of the drama that keeps you in a bad relationship.
yes, i tried to stay with a cheater, actually begged his stupid a$$ to stay with me and quit cheating. he couldn't do it. too bad i needed more damage done to finally give up.
and yeah, two kids involved.