Originally Posted by
HurtingWife2010 
I feel like he doesn't understand my perspective and how I'm feeling.
He may never understand unless/until the shoe is on the other foot. It's kind of the same thing for us on this side of the fence. I'm able to intellectually understand my daughter's addiction and I sincerely hope I don't ever understand how she's feeling.
Please check out some meetings. You don't have to say anything if you don't want.