Tonight, it finally dawned on me...he's an alcoholic on a rollercoaster. He doesn't know what he's doing.
Isn't it great
KeepPedaling to be emotionally detached enough to be able to see this? This is truly cause for celebration! Another bike perhaps? LOL
P.S. I recently learned how to appreciate and be grateful for these opportunities (even when I may not have reacted very gracefully). I would say something like, "Thank you XABF (whatever his name) for providing me this opportunity to practice my newly learned emotional detachment and boundaries."