In my previous post you all gave me more credit than was due .... I left my lying recovering dry drunk boyfriend 12 days ago. No contact on either side since then.
To me, safetygirl, you get plenty props just for leaving and going no contact for 12 days!
Wow, that is major. You can do this!
Have you found any AlAnon meetings?
I believe they can help you, and you already know alot.