I'm of the opinion that nobody accidentally finds themselves in a AA/NA meeting, in a treatment center, or even on a recovery message board. Somebody thinks we have a problem if we end up in one of these places. Usually we are the last ones to realize that we have a problem.
If you wanna drink, drink. That's your business my friend. I don't drink or do drugs because it damn near ruined my life and will kill me, and i'm not talking about dieing at 70 instead of 80, i'm talking about much sooner than later. I want a happy and fulfilling life and freaking drugs and alcohol brings me misery.