I agree with everyone that he needs help and you need to call 911 if he threatens again. AND.......sorry but spitting in my face would be a dealbreaker. On the show Sober House with Dr. Drew the councelor Bob said "you ever seen a cat playing with a cockroach? "That is what he is doing to you. That is how the alkie/addicts treat us. They manipulate us. Those kids need stability and should not be around him.