Yikes TC, what a lovely little family outing and get together that must have been for you and your bf.
Oh, how well you understand detaching, which is distancing yourself from a situation or person. Frankly with uncle and co, I bet you and bf would be happy if this lot stayed permanently detached by a distance of 500 miles.
Yes this man is worse than a vroom vroom teenager, pushing the limits as much as he can.....teens eventually grow up.....A's somehow seem to grow down.
God bless