(((Lisa)) Sounds like you had a great weekend..how exciting, you may be getting a new home..good for you...
(((Annie)) My whole life has been revolved around my children and H to the point I had no life of my own..I still struggle with this..but it's getting better..at first it feels weird like what do I do if I'm not worrying about others or trying to fix things. I have to change my thinking, that's all I thought about..the biggest thing for me to realize is that I am not responsible for others, just myself..it's been very hard learning to focus on changing myself..What is helping me is my dependence on my Higher Power, turning my life and will over to my higher power everyday and trusting him..and this thread has been a Godsend, it has helped me understand how much of a codie I am, and also I'm learning that it's ok to take care of myself and how to do it with the codie tools..I feel more hopeful now, even when I am going through problems.