I read good advice on this forum before, somehow I could not take it. Only now can I join the ranks of people who say ‘RUN RUN’ to people wondering about staying with their ABFs or AHs. And again, presumably, in many cases the advice will not sink in, because even if we are told this disease gets worse and worse, we keep hoping. And somehow we have to hit our bottom, too, before we realize there is no hope, that nothing will change unless something changes. And if he does not change, we have to change ....