Hi Chino
All I can say is you did well! Probably better than I could have done, and God knows I've had tons of practice.
I do believe this was a good thing because it gives you and your daughter a time to think over the situation. It also shows your daughter that you are sticking to your boundaries.
What other options did you have but to do this? NONE!
I'm proud of the way you handled yourself!
Hugs, Devastatrd