Elsie, my RABF has been in many rehab programs in the past, some for up to 12 months at a stretch, and has been involved with AA. He refuses to go thru AA meetings, as any mention of him talking in a group setting sends him into breakdown, and he is unable to even whisper.
He does the readings, and follows counselling at D and A, but that is one on one and no group or meeting scene. He registered on SR some time back, but whether he posts on the other forums I do not know, as I have never asked. Not because I don't care, but simply because it is none of my business.
I handed him over to God, and I don't want "that him" back thanks very much.
God bless