I too am dealing with this from my AS.. This morning we had a huge blow-up.. He jumped out of the car and walked off.. I had a melt down, wanted to drive after him but knew I needed an adult time out... I was ready to rip his head off.. He knew it. Once we both calmed down he called me.
Stay strong.. I myself am taking it an hour at a time so I dont go CRAZY (I may already be there) but you have to take care of YOU as everyone has told me.
xoxo