Hahaha, Mary, looks like there's going to be a lot of healing in my world, too...
KP, you're amazing with your clarity on this. I've been there with the "face to the window" thing...and am still there to some extent. I'm getting better but reading your words about "what do I care if...?" really helped. It only feeds resentment to do anything but that, right? And torture ourselves?
Sounds like you're in a really good place with it all. Congrats!
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