Originally Posted by
MaryGoRound 
few friends that do understand the situation are probably just as sick of all this as I am..and frankly, I'm tired of talking about him and moving on. It all I think about, so its hard to engage with others sometimes. Yuck.
I hear you! I think it is important to vent and let out your feelings but I really do get sick of it when I feel like all I'm doing is talking and thinking about my problems ALL THE TIME! I still live with AH and people who know the situation tend to ask how things are going and I inevitably end up talking about it. BUT there are some friends that have no idea and I really enjoy hanging out with them, because I get to focus on something else, and can enjoy time away from my problems. For me it's important to have both - people who listen to my vent and people I can just hang out with!