Interesting how these conversations after the visitation go well until you don't agree to whatever he says.
And- I don't understand the bit about how he wants his child support based on income he won't have? That is just plain SILLY to me. If he thinks he should pay more than the courts determine.. I'm sure he can write a check to cover it?
Be careful... what I think he is actually doing is laying ground work- to tell the courts that there is NO problem.. he see's his kid every day!! If he will lie about you being an alcoholic, etc.. I'm sure he will lie about YOU being there!
So- his choice. I would rethink how that visitation is going. Move it to a public place. Ask someone else to at least go with you. This is supposed to be about him spending time with his child. NOT you.. Do NOT put it past an addict to use the kids, to get to others.. You specifically.
We want it to be nice for the kids- and they benefit.