Originally Posted by
Insulated 
Maybe you were meant to be together to learn these very lessons. We always want to see ourselves and our lover in the best possible light. Sometimes the light gets dim and the fantasy fades.
Agreed here. I often thought "we" were meant to be together...and finally realized we were: We were
meant to be together so that I could learn the lesson, and then we were
meant to be apart, so I could move into the next, happier phase of my life - with that lesson to protect me.
Wish I could've learned the lesson some other way that didn't hurt so much! But I don't get to choose.
Big hugs to you, KP.
:ghug3