Thank you all! Hearing your experiences is really helpful. Bookwyrm- I am totally there with the anger at myself. I am sooo angry at myself, and am just trying to let it go, but struggling.
As for my daughter, I am going to research therapists for her. It is something I have been contemplating since the split. She is only 6, almost 7, would therapy be helpful to her? I see a lot of anger and hurt in her that I don't quite know how to help her with.