Thank you. I have not given up on her. I think that I have not communicated well enough to her that I am really serious about this. I think she thinks I am just "on the wagon" and cleaning up my act for Springtime. I need to be more clear with her, inorder to give her a better chance of understanding. She's a bright and sensitive person. I will see how it goes. I am glad I can always come here for strength.