Salut Dan,
Can I add my two cents and say I too think that while we have breath in our bodies we can still change, especially if we want it hard enough, if we try hard enough and most importantly (for me) if we think/believe it enough. You never know maybe if we give up someone then that someone might have just have been a second, a heartbeat away from starting to try and get clean/dry, now to me that would be a tragedy! I say never stop thinking "I can't" we damn well can and let's continue to try and to succeed.
thanks for listening.
passionately indigo x
Without belief how can we have hope, without hope how can we believe?