God (the Universe), our higher power, sends us people.
The new guy has a bit of money and the things that come with that. Today I found myself without a dollar in my pocket, and I disappeared from a gathering to walk for awhile. I found a store, bought cookies for the gathering, and got $9 cash back. He is flashy and/or generous and it makes me squirm.
Seems a dumb reason to not date a guy, because he has cash. I am really trying to stay comfortable in the moment and trust the path.
He and I are both people pleasers, mother hens, raging codies. 24 years in AA and countless failed attempts at trying to save people from themselves has taught him lessons about boundaries, which is good.
I tell him when I am squirrelly and why, he knows it is something for me to work through, and it didn't stop him from bring over FIVE pints of ice cream for my freezer today, uhg