CoDA
Codependents Guide to the Twelve Steps
Step One
We admitted we were powerless over others - that our lives had become unmanageable.
Step Two
Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Step Three
Made a decision to turn our will over and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God.
Step Four
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
Step Five
Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Step Six
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of our character.
Step Seven
Humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings.
Step Eight
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
Step Nine
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
Step Ten
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
Step Eleven
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood God, praying only for knowledge of God's will for us and the power to carry that out.
Step Twelve
Having had a spiritual awakening, as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other codependents, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.