Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
Boy, love sure makes you stupid.
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You're not stupid! You're rocking the house! You are looking and questioning and wanting to move toward health! Hooray!
You are pre-marriage with this guy.
You are not even too serious, it sounds like.
You are noticing some stress he is bringing (secondarily though his wife) into your life.
You realizing that stress isn't good for you.
You are figuring out how to block the stress-inducing factors.
That's good work, if you ask me.
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