How does he get away with this with you? I really want to know.
His apologies must be something special if he can breeze in and out of your life and the lives of the children by just pouring on the I'm sorries.
I see this time you rejected his apology and he got pissed off. Is that new?
Look, I'll tell it to you straight. You took him back. I'm sure there was discussion about him not having contact with these lady friends of his if you did so. He clearly doesn't think you are serious about monogomy and thinks a quick apology will resolve the problem.
Why not save us all the heartache and accept that he is an alcoholic adulterer that is never going to change and love him as he is no matter how bad he treats you and stop your bitchin'.
OOOORRRRRR
Put on some big girl pants and remember that you were worth kicking his slimy but out before and you are worth kicking him out again. A healthy relationship with yourself and with your children is far more important than a horrifying relationship with this douchbag. Show your children that self worth and a happy healthy home is worth fighting for!!
Said with much love, really.
Alice